In my books and audio programs I like to kick around the term High Status Male a lot, but really, what does this mean?
Like a fine diamond, there are many facets to this idea of the high male status which can encompass qualities like power, looks, authority and wealth -- balanced against physical strength and the ability to intimidate (even silently). How much weight is given to these various aspects that make up who you are depends mainly on your age. A younger man is not usually expected to have achieved the same level of wealth, power, fame or notoriety as an older man might've, but IS expected to have more in the way of physical strength and athletic ability going for him.
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As time passes, the well-rounded man should have the center of his inner strength shift more away from the physical to the financial-achievement-notoriety side of the equation-- but there's no denying that it helps at every stage of your growth and experience as a man to have as much in the way of physical vitality always working for you. It enhances your attractiveness towards women in many ways beyond the mere visible presentation that you make for yourself -- going much deeper into different corners of her psyche.
Raising your male status is not something that happens accidentally by waving a magic wand around, it takes dedication and work to improve all those various important aspects of your life that matter the most. Meeting women isn't just about laying down such a smooth rap that they instantly fall under your spell and begin loving you like mad. Sure, the ability to talk is a crucial element in seduction (it's your #1 power tool in fact), but so too is how much the stage is properly set with some good old non-verbal communication in advance of opening your mouth and spitting out that first word.
What I'm talking about is making an impressive (or at least an intriguing.... or at the VERY least NON-repulsive!!) visual presentation to women in order to appear on their radar first. This perks up their interest and gets your foot in the door in the sense that you're not always flying straight into abject disinterest each and every time that you try to start up a conversation with a girl cold!
But first let me show you 6 different ways that a stronger body works in your favor via its' projection into your high status male display:
1) Let's start with the point I just made about getting your foot in the door, and by this I mean in the sense that you've got some little toehold of female interest going on BEFORE setting to the task of impressing her with your clever words. We're talking about attracting female attention at the very least -- and maybe even getting a few solid "GO" signals now and then to boot... hey, waddya know!
It's that 'come hither' eye contact we live for... don't we? I'm talking about sparking up some visual juice so we don't have to perform jumping jacks in her line of sight in order to get ourselves noticed? Ever see how wimpy little guys with no physical mojo end up blending into the woodwork -- or are forced to adopt "brilliant" flamboyant and sometimes even clown-like behaviors in order to get themselves noticed by women? Do you want to be like that too? All your life?
Forget all that. Getting yourself into shape puts you up onto the radar screens of women and gets you a "hearing" -- in other words, she gives you a chance to impress her. NOW you can put your brilliant rap to work (the one that you learned from one of my books, right?...;-) and diminish the entire fear of rejection factor. Look, the best way to deal with fear of rejection is to arrange things for yourself so that you don't have to even deal with it at all!
2) As you progress in your fitness efforts and start getting more massive and well-defined, you'll begin to make a more striking visual impression on everyone around you... and you'll soon begin getting some positive feedback about yourself (perhaps for the first time in your life). If you've never felt this before it can become totally intoxicating! You will find yourself feeding off casual and even those nasty, jealousy-inspired compliments -- and before long you'll be motivated to start changing all sorts of stuff about your look and life.
Maybe you'll cut your hair, or grow it long like I recently did. Get a tat or a piercing, upgrade your wardrobe, re-work your entire style. There's no limit to where the changes wrought by a little body reshaping action could take you in terms of improving your look, your circle of friends and ultimately your entire life. You will be kicking off a positive feedback loop that will boost your confidence on many different levels, challenging your old worn out beliefs and putting them to shame.
3) Another benefit that I never realized until I started working out was the natural improvement it has on your posture. I actually started standing taller... it gave me an inch or two of apparent height! Hey, the last thing you need to be doing when you're 5'5" (166 cm) like me is to walk around slouching so that you look even shorter, right? People around me at work even noticed, and one guy accused me of wearing lifts. Ha!
You'll also FIT better in clothes as well, which is more important than you might think when it comes to making a solid first impression -- not just with women but in the business world as well. There's nothing worse than wearing baggy-fitting clothes when you're short. It makes you look two feet tall. Fitted clothes, on the other hand, will make you look more statuesque and a bit taller. (btw, office politics are a microcosm of the real world in the sense that the men compete for power and status within the company, and the physically smaller guys are always at a disadvantage. Ever notice how they always like to send some tall guy out to represent the company at conventions and meetings, etc.?)
4) A powerful sense of self-confidence is the "muscle of attitude" that makes all the difference in the world when it comes to gaming women. To some limited degree confidence can be faked -- and I even encourage this idea in my audio programs -- but you and I know that there's nothing that can totally replace the real thing. "Fake-it-until-you-make-it" can only take you so far in the world -- you will become exhausted and lose your nerve at some point. A fully genuine confidence that comes deep from the inside out is THE #1 most powerful signal of male power there is, and women WILL take notice of it!
5) Your bodybuilding efforts will NOT go unnoticed by your male friends either, and you will certainly begin to see some changes in their attitude towards you as your improving status begins to disturb the current pecking order among your circle of friends and co-workers.
Expect a few confrontations and maybe even some FIGHTS as your accelerating physical power begins to become regarded as a threat to guys who feel they should still retain a higher status than you. Some will feel the need to knock you back "into your place" -- but your NEW place is in a different HSM zip code now and they will just have to learn to deal with that! These challenges and conflicts can be a rough spot in your development, your HSM ladder-climbing efforts, but they WILL happen and you need to be ready for them. Just know that as you rise to meet these challenges one by one, your power, confidence and status will steadily move upwards with each new ladder rung achieved.
This is the journey of a Man -- a journey that you MUST undertake at some point in your life, or accept forever the low status male doormat role for yourself.
6) We are all addictive personalities to some extent, and especially if we have toxic shame or some other dysfunction that we're trying to escape from. Fitness and training can become addictive as well -- and you may soon find yourself trading this far more healthy and life-energizing addiction for something that's presently been dragging you down -- like a booze or food or maybe even a masturbation addiction. This could be a chance to swap endorphins and adrenaline for alcohol and/or donuts and get your health as well as your appearance fine tuned for a new life of power and social success!
The great thing is that you won't even have to WORK on getting addicted to training and becoming more healthy once you start to channel some positive feedback, in both the way that you look and feel - and especially once you start drawing some natural interest from women! Motivation will happen all on its own once your physical transformation begins to gain momentum.
Plus, as your body grows and begins to swap fat for muscle, a storm of new hormones and other powerful agents within the body will begin to work on your MIND as well as your physique. This biochemical burst will tend to clarify your consciousness and begin to snuff out a lot of the "stinkin' thinkin' that lies at the heart of your current fears and neurotic tendencies. The grip of shame, self-doubt and self-sabotage will begin to loosen their hold on your soul as your newfound physical strength begins to reconstruct your emotional reality as well as your body.
7) The focus that you put into your training efforts will spread far and wide throughout your world. Don't be surprised to find yourself instilled with a newfound discipline that will translate into other areas of your existence as well -- not just those regarding women. I'm talking about finding the courage and self-esteem to face major decisions that you may be putting off right now.
Things like: going to college, big career moves, joining the military, a relocation to another part of the country (or the world) in search of a new career path -- or maybe just some great adventure? Perhaps even a sports tryout, an acting or music audition? Who knows where the sort of intense life-altering blast that you could get from a little physical training and bodybuilding might eventually take you? Fitness and body building could become the springboard you've been looking for to lift yourself out of whatever life-rut that you may find yourself currently stuck in. There's no denying that the physically more powerful men can move about in the world without fear, and this manifests itself in their attitude in ways that must smell like sheer sexual honey to most women.
Especially if you're a young guy 16-35, you cannot afford to flounder around and wait for a Great Life to just show up at your doorstep one day and fall into your lap. You've got to go out there and take it by the throat and claim it for yourself!
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