Ways to improve how you look.
Although being comfortable with your own style is important, you should always aim to look your best. Women like to feel that the guy that they are with has made an effort to look good. Some guys simply use pheromones, thinking that these work whatever you like.....
I'm not a slave when it comes to following fashion and I certainly don't spend hours in front of the mirror, but I do make an effort to look good when I go out. Remember that you are going to be looking for opportunities for picking up a girl wherever you go. That means that you must always look good. You don't have to walk around permanently looking as if you are off to the theatre, but you should feel good about your appearance.
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There are 3 areas in which you may be able to improve on the way that you look.
Dress - Check what's IN
You don't need to be a slave to fashion but you can pay some attention to what the current men's styles are. Page through a few men S fashion magazines to get an idea. It's not necessarily the glossy fashion pages that you need to concentrate on. Instead, notice what the guys in the advertisements are wearing. If you want a good idea of what clothing attract girls, look through the ads in a women's magazine. You can be sure that the mate models will have been dressed in clothing that will catch the female reader's eye.
Remember that within the bounds of reasonably up to date trends, you want to have a style of your own. A look that will make you feel comfortable and confident. Wearing a favourite jacket or jersey will probably do that for you but beware of hanging on to old clothes just because you hate to throw things out.
Clothes that are clean and neat will go a long way to building that image of cool confidence.
Grooming
Grooming and cleanliness are a must for any guy who is out to Win with women. Dirty fingernails, bad breath or sweaty clothes are an instant turnoff. Even if you have the looks of a movie star and a sensational personality, bad grooming habits will invariably make you a loser with the girls. Some areas of grooming need special mention. Putting just a little pheromone spray on your hair is a good idea and works wonders.
Hair
A good professional haircut can really make a difference. Consider going to a unisex salon. Phone and make an appointment with a girl that they recommend. She's likely to cut your hair in a style that she finds attractive and so will other girls. When you arrive at the salon walk confidently in and say that you have an appointment with. They'll take it from there. It took me quite a while before I went to a salon for the first time. Now I think it's great.
Girls like to run their fingers through a guy's hair. Make sure that yours is always clean and shiny. Greasy slickbacks are a definite turnoff.
Teeth
Kissing involves the whole mouth. Clean teeth are a must. Use floss if necessary. Dental care is essential for looks, control of bad breath and comfort. (They should hire me for a toothpaste ad). But seriously, visit your dentist regularly If you have ugly or missing teeth see an orthodontist. You want your smile to be a winner.
Hands
Many girls are turned on by nice hands. You want to be able to use your hands without having to worry what they took like. There's no way you are going to look confident with your hands hidden behind your back or in your pockets. Keep your fingernails short and clean.
If you have rough or calloused hands, work on them with a good cream. You want her to groan with pleasure not agony.
Feet
Come on guys. I'm sure I don't have to lay this alt out. Just think back to what your mum was always on about. Like it or not, that's what the girls like. Toe-nails need regular trimming, powder for feet that smell, clean socks, leather shoes.
PHYSICAL PROBLEMS
I'm going to run through this without going into detail. Pick out any areas that you think apply to you and work on them.
Posture
Good posture is the first step to looking confident. Make sure you always stand up straight with your head up.
Weight
You don't have to have a perfect body in order to be successful with girls. If you are grossly overweight though, you could improve your chances with the girls by doing something about it. There are many clubs and organisations which you could attend for help. If you're a really skinny guy you could also do with some help in the form of exercises.
Bad skin
Most teenagers have problems with acne. it's caused by the hormonal changes which are taking place. If you have a severe problem with your skin, consult your doctor. Marks on your skins that you find embarrassing are also legitimate reasons for taking a trip to your doctor.
Wearing glasses
Don't be embarrassed about having to wear spectacles. I have to. Well, I don't wear glasses because I swapped them for contact lenses. It's great. No more getting steamed up just when you want to see the look on her face.
On the other hand, if you want to stick with specs. don't go without them. It will probably be quite obvious to any girl and will also result in your missing those smiles from across the room and not being able to scan the situation for a possible opportunity or stumbling instead of striding out. Ask me, I've been there.
Good Luck with your new you!
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